Forget about the days
when its been cloudy, but
don't forget your hours in the sun
Forget about the times
you've been defeated, but
don't forget the victories you've won
Forget about mistakes
that you can't change now, but
don't forget the lessons
that you've learnt
Forget about misfortunes
you encounter, but
don't forget the times
your luck has turned
Forget about the days
when you've been lonely, but
don't forget the friendly smiles you've seen
Forget about the plans
that didn't seem
to work out right, but
Don't forget to Always Have A Dream !
Ladies First
Ladies First
It is common to hear the expression 'ladies first'. Women, in particular, daily repeat it as if it is a rule. They actually feel proud of it, unknowing its origin and its real indications. They think it is praise to them, while it is a shame to be said according to its origin
The story of this saying took place in Italy. It is about two lovers who loved each other so much. They decided to marry. But some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage. They did not accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife, or to die together
Having done best to achieve the marriage, they got disappointed. Dying together was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suicide
Throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them. The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowning to death in front of his eyes. He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so latter
In the rush moment, the man did it and drown. The lady was looking at him as if he was 'singing'. The man was dead. It was the lady's turn to follow him to live together underneath, as they decided. But she soon broke her promise, forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well
She 'threw herself back to the village'. Yes! Her promise was to throw herself. And she did, but to the village instead of the sea
She came back home, to her relatives as if nothing has happened. Few days later, she fell in love with another man. She was happy with him as if it was her first love. It did not take a lot of time till she got married to him
Since then, people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying 'ladies first', with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sea first, should die first, because they are not trustworthy
It is really interesting when one hears a lady proudly says 'ladies first', thinking that she adds a privilege for being a female. Some people, men and women, take it as a social rule, unknowing its real indications.
This is not a personal point of view. It is not, moreover, a personal interpretation of the story. It is what many sources say and interpret the original story. So, women please forgive me for shedding light on this
I do only a favor for women so that to be aware of when to say 'ladies first' and when not to say. For me, I don’t care if I hear a woman saying this. I way ignore or pretend deafness. But others may take it a matter of satire
Having known this, women may reject this saying. They may claim that 'Ladies last' is better
This saying has been common for several years. And men never reject it. Though the proverb has a negative implication on women, men do really accept it as it is, following it as a matter of respect to women whenever they come across
See the difference, men do not feel teased whenever women shout for being 'the first', unknowing its real implications. But the case is taken differently by women when the verse happens
In spite of this, men will not change their respect and intimacy to women. They will take women to be first when they positively look at 'ladies first'. And similarly, they will insist to make 'ladies last' when it is negative to put them at first. The problem, however, lies in women themselves who do not accept everything normally as it is
Women claim to be first. They do not take it normally whether to be first or last. Men, on the other hand, accept women to be first not for the saying 'ladies first' but for the social respect of men towards women
So it is only a matter of respect. It is not a rule, and it is better to be not a rule because it will be a negative aspect of women
Spotlighting on this is not to provoke the matter between men and women. But it is to learn a lesson that both are 'first and both can be last'. There must be mutual acceptance and integration between the two sexes. So this is a call firstly for women, because of "ladies first", and secondly for men to look at the matter through the mind's eye
The story of this saying took place in Italy. It is about two lovers who loved each other so much. They decided to marry. But some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage. They did not accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife, or to die together
Having done best to achieve the marriage, they got disappointed. Dying together was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suicide
Throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them. The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowning to death in front of his eyes. He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so latter
In the rush moment, the man did it and drown. The lady was looking at him as if he was 'singing'. The man was dead. It was the lady's turn to follow him to live together underneath, as they decided. But she soon broke her promise, forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well
She 'threw herself back to the village'. Yes! Her promise was to throw herself. And she did, but to the village instead of the sea
She came back home, to her relatives as if nothing has happened. Few days later, she fell in love with another man. She was happy with him as if it was her first love. It did not take a lot of time till she got married to him
Since then, people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying 'ladies first', with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sea first, should die first, because they are not trustworthy
It is really interesting when one hears a lady proudly says 'ladies first', thinking that she adds a privilege for being a female. Some people, men and women, take it as a social rule, unknowing its real indications.
This is not a personal point of view. It is not, moreover, a personal interpretation of the story. It is what many sources say and interpret the original story. So, women please forgive me for shedding light on this
I do only a favor for women so that to be aware of when to say 'ladies first' and when not to say. For me, I don’t care if I hear a woman saying this. I way ignore or pretend deafness. But others may take it a matter of satire
Having known this, women may reject this saying. They may claim that 'Ladies last' is better
This saying has been common for several years. And men never reject it. Though the proverb has a negative implication on women, men do really accept it as it is, following it as a matter of respect to women whenever they come across
See the difference, men do not feel teased whenever women shout for being 'the first', unknowing its real implications. But the case is taken differently by women when the verse happens
In spite of this, men will not change their respect and intimacy to women. They will take women to be first when they positively look at 'ladies first'. And similarly, they will insist to make 'ladies last' when it is negative to put them at first. The problem, however, lies in women themselves who do not accept everything normally as it is
Women claim to be first. They do not take it normally whether to be first or last. Men, on the other hand, accept women to be first not for the saying 'ladies first' but for the social respect of men towards women
So it is only a matter of respect. It is not a rule, and it is better to be not a rule because it will be a negative aspect of women
Spotlighting on this is not to provoke the matter between men and women. But it is to learn a lesson that both are 'first and both can be last'. There must be mutual acceptance and integration between the two sexes. So this is a call firstly for women, because of "ladies first", and secondly for men to look at the matter through the mind's eye
Positive and Negative
Positive and Negative
* * * * * * *
Positive: Think about a solution
Negative: Think about the problem
* * * * * * *
Positive: Endless Ideas
Negative: Endless Excuses
Negative: Helped by Others
Positive: Sees a Solution for each problem
Negative: Sees a Problem for each Solution
Positive: Solution Hard but possible
Negative: Solution Possible but Hard
Positive:Achievement is an accountability
* * * * * *
Positive: Has Dreams He Needs to Fulfill
Negative: Has Disillusions He Needs to Get Rid of.
* * * * * *
Positive: Treat others as you want to be treated
Negative: Fool others before they fool you
* * * * * *
Positive: Sees Gain in Work
Negative: Sees Pain in Work
* * * * * *
Positive: Sees the Possible in the Future
Negative: Sees the Impossible in the Future.
* * * * * *
Positive: Selects what to Say
Negative: Says what he Selects
* * * * * *
Positive: Strong Discussion with Soft Language
Negative: Soft Discussion with Strong Language
* * * * * *
Positive: Holds on Values and Forgoes Casual Issues
Negative: Holds on Casual Issues and Forgoes Values
* * * * * *
Positive: Makes Events
Negative: Made by Events
he best qualities of good friend
The best qualities of good friend
A good friend is a blessing from heaven.He should have a good character that reflects his good manners.He is honest and faithful to his friend and is always ready to stand by him and back him in any crisis.Therefore,he is reliable and fulfills his promise.The wisdom says"A friend in need is a friend indeed".
On the other hand, a really good friend is tolerant.He tolerates others and doesn't criticize but tactfully advises his friend when he need advise.A good friend is good patriot.He loves his country and does his best to serve his fellow citizens and never thinks of betraying them.
On the other hand, a really good friend is tolerant.He tolerates others and doesn't criticize but tactfully advises his friend when he need advise.A good friend is good patriot.He loves his country and does his best to serve his fellow citizens and never thinks of betraying them.
Crazy English
Let’s face it: English is a crazy language. There is no egg in eggplant or ham in hamburger, neither apple nor pine in pineapple
English muffins were not invented in England or french fries in France. Sweetmeats are candies, while sweetbreads, which aren’t sweet, are meat
We take English for granted. But if we explore its paradoxes, we find that quicksand can work slowly, boxing rings are square, and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig. And why is it that writers write, but fingers don’t fing, grocers don’t groce, and hammers don’t ham? If the plural of tooth is teeth, why isn’t the plural of booth beeth? One goose, 2 geese. So, one moose, 2 meese? One index, two indices? Is cheese the plural of choose
If teachers taught, why didn’t preachers praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat
In what language do people recite at a play and play at a recital? Ship by truck and send cargo by ship? Have noses that run and feet that smell? Park on driveways and drive on parkways
How can a slim chance and a fat chance be the same, while a wise man and a wise guy are opposites? How can the weather be hot as hell one day an cold as hell another
When a house burns up, it burns down. You fill in a form by filling it out and an alarm clock goes off by going on
When the stars are out, they are visible, but when the lights are out, they are invisible. And why, when I wind up my watch, I start it, but when I wind up this essay, I end it
Funny SMS
Funny SMS
enjoy it
SomeOne..
MiSSES U..
NeeDS U..
Worries About U
Lonely Without U
Guess Who?
THE MONKEY IN
… THE ZOO ..
Do u remember the day we travelled in a car?
I put my dog out of the window,
u put ur face out,
then people started shouting
‘TWINS TWINS
^
^
^
hhhhhhhhhhhh
so funny
TEACHER:
what is the different between
problem and challenge????
STUDENT:3boys+1girl=problem
1boy+3girls=challenge..
Santa: Look a thief has entered our kitchen
and he is eating the cake I made.
Banta: Whom should I call now,
Police or Ambulance?
U r a nice person…
but..U have to do 2 things early in the morning…
1st. pray to God so that u can live….
2nd.take a bath so that others can live….
When u feel sad….
To cheer up just go to the mirror and say,
“damn I am really so cute”
u will overcome your sadness.
But don’t make this a habit…..
Coz liars go to hell !!!!
Today is an international day
for the mentally disabled .
Please send an encouraging
sms to a mentally disabled friend
I have done !!!
Twinkle Twinkle little star,
You should know what you are,
And once you know what you are,
Mental hospital is not so far
What is the difference between
Monkey & Donkey ?
Monkey saves this message
&
Donkey deletes this message.
Choice is urs……..
Dad : Son, what do you want for your birthday?
Son : Not much dad,
just a radio with a sports car around it.
Everything is incomplete without ME
..mory
Co..dy
Ti..
Ga..
So..thing
..aning
Even this ..ssage!
So dont forget ME
^
^
Teacher To Student:
Can You Define Who Is LECTURER?
Student : A LECTURER Is A Person Who Has A Very Bad
Habit Of Speaking When Someone Is SLeeping.
Father to son:
whenever i beat you,
you dont get annoyed,
how you control your anger?
son: i start cleaning the toilet
seat with your toothbrush
Girl: When we get married,
I want to share all your worries,
troubles and lighten your burden.
Boy: It’s very kind of you,
darling, But I don’t have any worries or troubles.
Girl: Well that is because we aren’t married yet
TEACHER: Arshad, name one important thing
we have today that we didn’t have ten years ago.
Arshad: Me!
I wrote your name on sand,
it got washed.
I wrote your name in air,
it was blown away.
I wrote your name on my heart &
i got Heart Attack.
enjoy it
SomeOne..
MiSSES U..
NeeDS U..
Worries About U
Lonely Without U
Guess Who?
THE MONKEY IN
… THE ZOO ..
Do u remember the day we travelled in a car?
I put my dog out of the window,
u put ur face out,
then people started shouting
‘TWINS TWINS
^
^
^
hhhhhhhhhhhh
so funny
TEACHER:
what is the different between
problem and challenge????
STUDENT:3boys+1girl=problem
1boy+3girls=challenge..
Santa: Look a thief has entered our kitchen
and he is eating the cake I made.
Banta: Whom should I call now,
Police or Ambulance?
U r a nice person…
but..U have to do 2 things early in the morning…
1st. pray to God so that u can live….
2nd.take a bath so that others can live….
When u feel sad….
To cheer up just go to the mirror and say,
“damn I am really so cute”
u will overcome your sadness.
But don’t make this a habit…..
Coz liars go to hell !!!!
Today is an international day
for the mentally disabled .
Please send an encouraging
sms to a mentally disabled friend
I have done !!!
Twinkle Twinkle little star,
You should know what you are,
And once you know what you are,
Mental hospital is not so far
What is the difference between
Monkey & Donkey ?
Monkey saves this message
&
Donkey deletes this message.
Choice is urs……..
Dad : Son, what do you want for your birthday?
Son : Not much dad,
just a radio with a sports car around it.
Everything is incomplete without ME
..mory
Co..dy
Ti..
Ga..
So..thing
..aning
Even this ..ssage!
So dont forget ME
^
^
Teacher To Student:
Can You Define Who Is LECTURER?
Student : A LECTURER Is A Person Who Has A Very Bad
Habit Of Speaking When Someone Is SLeeping.
Father to son:
whenever i beat you,
you dont get annoyed,
how you control your anger?
son: i start cleaning the toilet
seat with your toothbrush
Girl: When we get married,
I want to share all your worries,
troubles and lighten your burden.
Boy: It’s very kind of you,
darling, But I don’t have any worries or troubles.
Girl: Well that is because we aren’t married yet
TEACHER: Arshad, name one important thing
we have today that we didn’t have ten years ago.
Arshad: Me!
I wrote your name on sand,
it got washed.
I wrote your name in air,
it was blown away.
I wrote your name on my heart &
i got Heart Attack.
A Story Carries A Lot of Feelings
A Story Carries A Lot of Feelings
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A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was
kind of scared so he asked his little daughter
"Sweetheart,
please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."
The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the
difference?"asked the puzzled father.
There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are
that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for
sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
In any relationship,
the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond
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A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was
kind of scared so he asked his little daughter
"Sweetheart,
please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."
The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the
difference?"asked the puzzled father.
There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are
that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for
sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."
In any relationship,
the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond
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