الأحد، 3 أبريل 2011

Monday, September 28, 2009

Forget about the days
when its been cloudy, but
don't forget your hours in the sun

Forget about the times
you've been defeated, but
don't forget the victories you've won

Forget about mistakes
that you can't change now, but
don't forget the lessons
that you've learnt

Forget about misfortunes
you encounter, but
don't forget the times
your luck has turned

Forget about the days
when you've been lonely, but
don't forget the friendly smiles you've seen

Forget about the plans
that didn't seem
to work out right, but

Don't forget to Always Have A Dream !

Ladies First

Ladies First

It is common to hear the expression 'ladies first'. Women, in particular, daily repeat it as if it is a rule. They actually feel proud of it, unknowing its origin and its real indications. They think it is praise to them, while it is a shame to be said according to its origin

The story of this saying took place in Italy. It is about two lovers who loved each other so much. They decided to marry. But some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage. They did not accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife, or to die together

Having done best to achieve the marriage, they got disappointed. Dying together was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suicide

Throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them. The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowning to death in front of his eyes. He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so latter

In the rush moment, the man did it and drown. The lady was looking at him as if he was 'singing'. The man was dead. It was the lady's turn to follow him to live together underneath, as they decided. But she soon broke her promise, forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well

She 'threw herself back to the village'. Yes! Her promise was to throw herself. And she did, but to the village instead of the sea

She came back home, to her relatives as if nothing has happened. Few days later, she fell in love with another man. She was happy with him as if it was her first love. It did not take a lot of time till she got married to him

Since then, people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying 'ladies first', with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sea first, should die first, because they are not trustworthy

It is really interesting when one hears a lady proudly says 'ladies first', thinking that she adds a privilege for being a female. Some people, men and women, take it as a social rule, unknowing its real indications.

This is not a personal point of view. It is not, moreover, a personal interpretation of the story. It is what many sources say and interpret the original story. So, women please forgive me for shedding light on this

I do only a favor for women so that to be aware of when to say 'ladies first' and when not to say. For me, I don’t care if I hear a woman saying this. I way ignore or pretend deafness. But others may take it a matter of satire

Having known this, women may reject this saying. They may claim that 'Ladies last' is better

This saying has been common for several years. And men never reject it. Though the proverb has a negative implication on women, men do really accept it as it is, following it as a matter of respect to women whenever they come across

See the difference, men do not feel teased whenever women shout for being 'the first', unknowing its real implications. But the case is taken differently by women when the verse happens

In spite of this, men will not change their respect and intimacy to women. They will take women to be first when they positively look at 'ladies first'. And similarly, they will insist to make 'ladies last' when it is negative to put them at first. The problem, however, lies in women themselves who do not accept everything normally as it is

Women claim to be first. They do not take it normally whether to be first or last. Men, on the other hand, accept women to be first not for the saying 'ladies first' but for the social respect of men towards women
So it is only a matter of respect. It is not a rule, and it is better to be not a rule because it will be a negative aspect of women

Spotlighting on this is not to provoke the matter between men and women. But it is to learn a lesson that both are 'first and both can be last'. There must be mutual acceptance and integration between the two sexes. So this is a call firstly for women, because of "ladies first", and secondly for men to look at the matter through the mind's eye

Positive and Negative

Positive and Negative

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Positive: Think about a solution

Negative: Think about the problem

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Positive: Endless Ideas

Negative: Endless Excuses

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Positive: Helps Others

Negative: Helped by Others

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Positive: Sees a Solution for each problem

Negative: Sees a Problem for each Solution

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Positive: Solution Hard but possible

Negative: Solution Possible but Hard

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Positive:Achievement is an accountability

Negative: Achievement is a Promise

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Positive: Has Dreams He Needs to Fulfill

Negative: Has Disillusions He Needs to Get Rid of.

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Positive: Treat others as you want to be treated

Negative: Fool others before they fool you

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Positive: Sees Gain in Work

Negative: Sees Pain in Work

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Positive: Sees the Possible in the Future

Negative: Sees the Impossible in the Future.

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Positive: Selects what to Say

Negative: Says what he Selects

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Positive: Strong Discussion with Soft Language

Negative: Soft Discussion with Strong Language

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Positive: Holds on Values and Forgoes Casual Issues

Negative: Holds on Casual Issues and Forgoes Values

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Positive: Makes Events

Negative: Made by Events

he best qualities of good friend

The best qualities of good friend

A good friend is a blessing from heaven.He should have a good character that reflects his good manners.He is honest and faithful to his friend and is always ready to stand by him and back him in any crisis.Therefore,he is reliable and fulfills his promise.The wisdom says"A friend in need is a friend indeed".

On the other hand, a really good friend is tolerant.He tolerates others and doesn't criticize but tactfully advises his friend when he need advise.A good friend is good patriot.He loves his country and does his best to serve his fellow citizens and never thinks of betraying them.

Crazy English

Let’s face it: English is a crazy language. There is no egg in eggplant or ham in hamburger, neither apple nor pine in pineapple

English muffins were not invented in England or french fries in France. Sweetmeats are candies, while sweetbreads, which aren’t sweet, are meat

We take English for granted. But if we explore its paradoxes, we find that quicksand can work slowly, boxing rings are square, and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig. And why is it that writers write, but fingers don’t fing, grocers don’t groce, and hammers don’t ham? If the plural of tooth is teeth, why isn’t the plural of booth beeth? One goose, 2 geese. So, one moose, 2 meese? One index, two indices? Is cheese the plural of choose

If teachers taught, why didn’t preachers praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat

In what language do people recite at a play and play at a recital? Ship by truck and send cargo by ship? Have noses that run and feet that smell? Park on driveways and drive on parkways

How can a slim chance and a fat chance be the same, while a wise man and a wise guy are opposites? How can the weather be hot as hell one day an cold as hell another

When a house burns up, it burns down. You fill in a form by filling it out and an alarm clock goes off by going on

When the stars are out, they are visible, but when the lights are out, they are invisible. And why, when I wind up my watch, I start it, but when I wind up this essay, I end it

Funny SMS

Funny SMS
enjoy it

NeeDS U..
Worries About U
Lonely Without U
Guess Who?
… THE ZOO ..

Do u remember the day we travelled in a car?
I put my dog out of the window,
u put ur face out,
then people started shouting

so funny

what is the different between
problem and challenge????

Santa: Look a thief has entered our kitchen
and he is eating the cake I made.
Banta: Whom should I call now,
Police or Ambulance?

U r a nice person…
but..U have to do 2 things early in the morning…
1st. pray to God so that u can live….
2nd.take a bath so that others can live….

When u feel sad….
To cheer up just go to the mirror and say,
“damn I am really so cute”
u will overcome your sadness.
But don’t make this a habit…..
Coz liars go to hell !!!!

Today is an international day
for the mentally disabled .
Please send an encouraging
sms to a mentally disabled friend
I have done !!!

Twinkle Twinkle little star,
You should know what you are,
And once you know what you are,
Mental hospital is not so far

What is the difference between
Monkey & Donkey ?
Monkey saves this message
Donkey deletes this message.
Choice is urs……..

Dad : Son, what do you want for your birthday?
Son : Not much dad,
just a radio with a sports car around it.

Everything is incomplete without ME
Even this ..ssage!
So dont forget ME


Teacher To Student:
Can You Define Who Is LECTURER?
Student : A LECTURER Is A Person Who Has A Very Bad
Habit Of Speaking When Someone Is SLeeping.

Father to son:
whenever i beat you,
you dont get annoyed,
how you control your anger?
son: i start cleaning the toilet
seat with your toothbrush

Girl: When we get married,
I want to share all your worries,
troubles and lighten your burden.
Boy: It’s very kind of you,
darling, But I don’t have any worries or troubles.
Girl: Well that is because we aren’t married yet

TEACHER: Arshad, name one important thing
we have today that we didn’t have ten years ago.
Arshad: Me!

I wrote your name on sand,
it got washed.
I wrote your name in air,
it was blown away.
I wrote your name on my heart &
i got Heart Attack.

A Story Carries A Lot of Feelings

A Story Carries A Lot of Feelings


A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was
kind of scared so he asked his little daughter


please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."

The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."

"What's the

difference?"asked the puzzled father.

There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are

that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for

sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship,

the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond

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